I am careful about who I tell I am planning on retiring from my current job as soon as I can. I’ve gotten comments such as “don’t wish your life away” or “what will you do?” It’s not a big deal, but it is telling.
The “don’t wish your life away” is the one I love [sic] the most. Instead of planning on a time certain that I can start getting a small pension and health insurance for life (in my case) and leaving a job I most certainly dislike participating in anymore, I am wishing my life away. Isn’t it really the opposite?
I’ll answer that since this is my blog and my life :). YES. I can’t wait to “retire,” i.e., put an end to slogging through the mud every day.
Creating Good Vibrations
I could write details about day to day occurrences that make me want to run screaming, but I’d like to keep this blog as positive as I can and create where I’m going rather than complain about where I am.
In the airport on my way home from a business trip yesterday I decided to browse through the books in the Business section. Nothing was striking my fancy until I spied a book on the bottom shelf called The Joy of Not Working: A Book for the Retired, Unemployed and Overworked- 21st Century Edition. I bought it and read the first 3 chapters on the plane. I understand where I am now in the workplace and where I am choosing to go in a new way. This book was a real find.
For now, time to get away from the computer and enjoy the sunshine! I welcome your comments. Thank you for reading this.


2 responses so far ↓
1 RetiredSyd // Jan 12, 2008 at 3:52 pm
Wow, I’ve heard much “helpful advice” about my retirement, but that one–”don’t wish your life away” takes the cake! I find it sad, actually. Because one of life’s simple pleasures is anticipation. When I plan a trip, for me, half the fun is anticipating it, planning it, looking forward to it. In a way, it takes the joy of that trip and gives a me a little of it right now! What can be wrong about that.
I have found the same joy thinking about, planning, and discussing my own plans for retirement. I would never consider that wishing my life away; I consider it experiencing some of the joy my future holds for me RIGHT NOW.
I look forward to reading more of your journey toward retirement.
RetiredSyd
2 Cheryl // Jan 12, 2008 at 4:02 pm
RetiredSyd,
You really understand what I was getting at. Thank you for your comments.
The nice thing is that I don’t have to wait another 10 years or so, this is right around the corner. My life is only getting better and it sounds like the same holds true for you. It is so much fun to dream and scheme.
Cheryl
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